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| It's Hard to Believe Eight Years Has Passed 10/10/2008 |
October 4th has again come and gone and like previous years tears well up in my eyes as I type this. Greg, your memories will always be with us both in spirit and in mind. We love you and miss you very much.
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Greg's Uncle Dick
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| July 15, 2008 Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing 7/16/2008 |
Hi Greg. We had a great time at your memorial Golf Outing July 15, 2008. It was nice seeing everyone Your Mother, Jim, Jamie, Keith, Jamie's new baby Ryan, Kris, Caroline, Katie & Amy. The food and drinks were excellent, too. It was nice that Kris was able to come from Philadelphia where He and Susana now live. I loved his speech. He spoke very highly of you and reminded everyone why we were there. Baby Ryan sure is precious. My wife Suzanne (your new Aunt Suzanne) adores him. What a good baby he is. We missed your Dad. I'm sure he was very disappointed that he couldn't be there as he is working in New York City. But we all were there representing the Unger family. Caroline called your Dad on her cell phone during Kris' speech and he heard the entire speech over the phone. I sure like that Mike Carouso. He is a great personality and ran that golf outing and banquet like the real pro he is. I was very impressed with how many people attended the Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing and Banquet. That huge banquet hall was filled. I believe someone announced there were over 250 attendees who either golfed or attended the banquet only like Suzanne and I did. Each table sat about eight people. I liked how organized the four food lines were. They sure went fast. Hardly any waiting in line at all. I was impressed with the $14,000 that was raised. It is a nice amount to be able to help some people with financial medical needs. I was also impressed with the amount of the donations those two companies gave. $2,500 and $7,500. Lots of prizes were given out from 50/50 raffle tickets. This is the eighth year for your memorial golf outing. Suzanne and I enjoyed ourselves very much as well as everyone else. Your Dad sends his love and says he misses you so much. We all do.
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Richard Unger
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| June 23, 2007 4/25/2007 |
Hello Greg.
I have an announcement to make. I will be getting married to a very wonderful woman who will soon be your new Aunt Suzanne. Suzanne and I will be getting maried in a beautiful place called The Molly Pitcher Inn in New Jersey where her family lives. I very much wish that you could attend, as your Dad will be there. But I know you will be looking down upon us. I'll look up that day and give you a wink.
Love, Uncle Dick & Aunt Suzanne
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Richard
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Richard
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| Hello Greg 11/3/2006 |
Hi Greg.......Its me, Caroline here. I know you know me even though I've never written before. Actually, I have tried to several times, but somehow, the words just wouldn't come. I remember sitting at the computer one Saturday with my girls on either side of me, and we spent some time reading all of the wonderful thoughts and memories so many people have shared. I have to say that it was quite an experience for the three of us. But, today I just want to say that for the past three and a half years that your dad and I have been together, He has made you so alive for me. We talk about you often, and through your dad (as well as other people, but most especially your dad) I have learned so much about you. I have a huge regret concerning you, and its that I was never fortunate enough to know you. I hope I will meet you in heaven along with my sisters who I also never met. Sometimes your dad cries when we talk about you, but mostly he remembers how happy he was to have been your father. I want you to know,that your dad is a wonderful man, a loving husband, a devoted father and grandpa, and a loved stepfather. He sees you in everything that is good and happy. He remembers and cherishes you and the short time you had with him and the rest of your family. When things happen in the house........maybe a light goes out, or we hear an unfamiliar noise, He always thinks you are around, and it comforts him. Well, Greg.....I could go on and on and on and I probably will again. But, for now, goodbye. Caroline
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Caroline Unger
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| 6 years yesterday 10/5/2006 |
Hi Greg...still hard to believe it was 6 years yesterday that you left our world to a much better place. We all miss you so much...yesterday was like the day you passed, it was cold, rainy and ugly outside...I will never forget that day....but today is a day you always looked forward to...the day the Red Wings started their new season....some of the same players are still on the team for when you were here...and the Tigers are in the Playoffs playing the Yankees and they won today giving them a 1-1 in the playoffs. Still, things are never the same without you and we love you so much Greg...your memories are always with us and you are in my heart each and every day....Peace be with you Greg....Love, Your Dad xoxo
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
bill unger
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| Hi Greg, 9/27/2006 |
Hi Greg, Aunt Joan here. Haven't written on this site in a long time. Thanks to Mike and Brian, its still here.
I had a bad day today and was feeling sorry for myself and mad at the world when i saw this email from Uncle Dick referring to your site. Wow, what an eye opener this is. What a wonderful person you are; everything you had to go thru and hardly ever a complaint. I take my hat off to you (actually, my grey tinted hair), Greg, and to your family for creating and supporting such a wonderful person as you. Remembering you is wonderful. Thanks for being here to share my thoughts, opening my eyes, and putting life into perspective.
Love, Aunt Joan
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Aunt Joan
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| Happy 26th Greg 8/10/2006 |
Well, we celebrated Greg's 26th Birthday yesterday. I can't believe how the years just go by so fast. Yesterday was special...we all went to the cemetery, put flowers on his gravesite, dropped off a Birthday card to Greg, lit a candle and made our silent prayers and thoughts to Greg. Yesterday, was very special for us....Greg's best friend Duane came with us to the cemetery and out to our annual stop at Casey's in Ann Arbor for dinner. It was so special to have Duane with us since now we get to see Duane nearing his 26th birthday as well but also because it is another way where Greg's life is kept alive...listening to some of the memories of Greg as well as reading them at this website brings Greg to life again and again and we are all so very appreciative of that....you all were so very good to Greg. Two weeks ago, the Canton Firefighters Assn. put on the 5th Annual Greg Unger Memorial Classic Golf Outing again and it was another total success....the golf course was filled, the dinner banquet was superb and they raised alot of money for other needy families in the community. In addition, the Canton Firefighters Assn. is making a $1,000 donation to the Ronald McDonald Charities in St. Louis in memory of Greg and where Greg and his family stayed for months during his rehab. Again, I can't thank Greg's Cousin Brian and Michael enough for this wonderful website and to read all of the fond memories of Greg. God Bless you all....We Love you Greg!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Shot of Tequila? 8/9/2006 |
It's been quite a few years since I came to this page. I am not even sure people visit very often. But I stumbled upon it by actually googling "How to get Rid of Raccoons". Seriously. How does that happen? Anyway, I went to a funeral for a friend of mine that passed away last week and it got me thinking...And, of course, thinking back to Greg. After the funeral last week we went and did a shot and a toast...Much like we did for Greg. Of all the stories I can tell about Greg, and there are hundreds, one of the most insignificant is the one that stands out. It was about a year before he died and we were in Canada. We knew the fragility of the situation, and we did a shot of tequila with Greg. He couldn't really drink, but he wanted to, and the last people to hold him back would be us. It was a crazy night. He was just one of us, at the bar, looking at girls and getting rejected with smiles on our faces. Greg was one of us...To us, bluntly, he wasn't special. He was Greg. Our friend. Not till after death did we realize the "special" everyone referred to. This may never be read. But I thought it should be shared.
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Chris Polack
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| to you all 4/27/2006 |
I did know Greg. I found the site on the web and was touched by his story and the love for him witnessed by the site. I only wanted to acknowledge this and wish blessings to him and you all.
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vince davis
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| One Christmas morning long long ago.... 12/25/2005 |
Greg, One time when we were very young children your Dad, Uncle Jim, Aunt Joan and I woke up one Christmas morning around 6:00 am and went downstairs. We were so mesmerized by what we saw we opened all our presents while our Mom and Dad were still sleeping. When they found out what we had done they were pretty upset. But since it was Christmas Day they forgave us. However, every Christmas Eve after that Mom slept on the couch in the living room with the Christmas tree just in case. Kids will be kids.
Merry Christmas GREG and to you too Bill, Joan & Jim.......
Love, Uncle Dick
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Uncle Dick
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| I miss you 11/21/2005 |
Greg,
How are you?
I miss you very,very,very much!
What is Heaven like?
I miss you sooooo much i could faint!
You were a very nice person.
I love you,
you could do almost anything!
Love,
Kellie
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Kellie
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| What I Can Remember 11/13/2005 |
Greg,
I remember you as a nice and gentle person. I bet it was hard to survive C.F. I'd pay all the money in the world to see you once again! I can think about you, but, only remember a couple things. You could do almost everything every kid could do!
You would hold me sooo tight!
You could giggle, Giggle like anyone!
Greg,
your a heart warming memory.
love,
Kellie age 8.
p.s
i love u!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Kellie Tinskey
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| 5 years ago today.... 10/4/2005 |
It's hard to believe that 5 years have gone by since we lost you here. Today, I re-lived that day 5 years ago, by thinking what we were doing as the hours ticked by...Kris was trying to make it back home from Italy, we all knew the end was near and we all wanted to say our good-bys. I remember there were alot of people in the room with us, mostly nurses and doctors but at 6:05pm, it was all just moms and dads supporting our family as best as they could. It was so painful that day and I have to admit, alot of that pain has left me and with that I have nothing but fond, beautiful memories of Greg. This was his favorite season because the Red Wings were about to start playing and wouldn't he be so happy to know they were coming back after a year layoff. Kris shared an email today that he received from his Uncle Dick today....it was an email from Greg (Gregman) to Uncle Dick thanking him so much for the great deal Uncle Dick was able to get for him on his new 1999 Black fully loaded Black Alero and kept saying how much he loved it and that Uncle Dick was the best Uncle ever....that email sent goosebumps all over...I felt like Greg was here with us writing that email TODAY. Thanks Richard for sharing that with us today. And then tonight, we were watching a Red Wing Special where the Red Wing Alumni Team travelled to Russia for some exhibition games with the Russian Elite...but I thought it was so appropriate to be watching this tonight since it was the Red Wing Alumni that played in two of Greg's Fundraisers. Its also hard to believe that it has been 10 years since we did all that fundraising and it seemed only like yesterday....I do believe in my heart that all of you were put there for us in 1995 for that purpose....thanks again for all your support then and now....Greg, we continue to miss you soooo much and love you very much....Love, Dad
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Greg's Dad
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| Merry Christmas 2004 12/12/2004 |
Greg, We wanted to let you know we have not forgotten you this holiday, It seems that time gets away from us so quickly. Alvie and I have moved back to Kentucky and we will try to get up to visit you soon. I miss you and wish sometimes I had the fortitude that seemed to come so easy for you, Please remember that we love you and always will. -David & Alvalene
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David & Alvalene
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| Glad To See You are Back Online 10/8/04 |
Greg, I am so happy to see you are back online. I get sad when I can't see your website and thanks to your Cousin Brian and Your Uncle Richard, you are up and well again. This seems to be the only place I can communicate with you other than my heart and memories. Last week, was the 4th Anniversary of your Passing and it still pains me to think of what you went through....you were such a very brave man, none of us will really know. We love you so much and our thoughts are with you daily. The recent trip I took to the cemetary was such a serene and beautiful fall day, so quiet and still, it was so emotional for me because I really felt you that day....I love you so much....stay with all of us as we go through our daily tribulations. You are a wonderful boy and I am so proud to be your Dad....Love you so much, Dad xoxo
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Who Else
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| Wonderful Golf Tournament 8/4/04 |
The 4th Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing was such a success, they have renamed it The Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf "Classic" and a classic it was....A full-course of golfers, the weather was great, the banquet was superb and the prizes were terrific. Mike Carruso, the organizer of the event and the Canton Firefighters Assn. do such a superb job and it was the best yet. Once again they raised over $5,000 of which we donated $2,000 to a 13 year old girl, Kayla who also has Cystic Fibrosis and has a need to alleviate some of her medical bills and $1,000 will be donated to the UofM Pediatric Intensive Care Unit. Our sincere appreciation goes out to Mike, The Canton Firefighters Assn. and all the volunteers who make this "Classic" a huge success and who continue to keep Greg's memories alive....God Bless you all!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| 4th Annual Greg Unger Memorial 7/9/04 |
Well Greg, next Tuesday is the 4th Annual Memorial Golf Outing and I heard from Mike Carusso today and he says it will be a full house and probably the best tournament of all. We are going to donate a portion of the proceeds to a special little girl, Kayla who also has Cystic Fibrosis and is in need of some extra funds for her medical expenses. I know Greg would be happy knowing that he was helping another family. I know Greg you will be with us that day as you are everyday in our hearts. We love you and miss you and this year Kris had a special sign made up in your honor that will be placed on the 1st Tee... We Love you, Greg...Love, Dad xoxo
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Greg's Dad
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| A Connection 5/20/04 |
Greg and Brandon never knew each other but they had one thing in common. They both received living donor organ transplants. Brandon of Delaware is 18 years old who received a living donor liver transplant from a 38 year old friend whose name is JP. On Wednesday, May 12, 2004 JP allowed surgeons to remove the right lobe of his liver and use it to replace Brandon’s fast-failing liver. Brandon, needed a liver transplant to survive as a result of complications stemming from Cystic Fibrosis. I am adding Brandon's website to Greg's website because Greg's Dad Bill and Greg's sister Jamie were also living organ transplant donors and COTA helped Brandon's family (cotaforbrandonh.org) just like COTA helped Greg's family (cotaforgreg). The two stories have similar connections.
http://www.caringbridge.org/de/brandonhastings/
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Anonymous
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| Stumbled 5/3/04 |
I stumbled onto this site. I couldn't believe it, when I saw Greg's name. When going through the pictures here, I saw one of my brother with Greg and Godie Howel.
I remember being at that hockey game. The event touched my brother deeply as well as our whole family. We were all there for the event. A few years later I joined a bowling team. Where one of my team-mates was Nancy (can't remember her last name) talked about Greg. Turns up she is a cousin? We talked about Greg his fighting will. Nancy and I shared a few tears. It wasn't but a few days later, my brother called me about Greg's passing. Len (my brother) never has forgotten Greg. Just really wanted to let you know that Greg's memory lives on by people who only knew him as the name of a boy who fought a long hard battle in the war of life. He may be gone, but far from forgotten. Bless the family who loved and cared and most of all who miss him so much. Hugs to all of you.
Sharon Schemanske sister of Canton Police Officer, Leonard Schemanske
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Sharon Schemanske
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| Easter 4/10/04 |
Greg....here it is another Easter Season without you and you are so dearly missed. You are in my heart every day and I wish you could be here but I do know you are in a better place now and I will see you again...With all my love, Dad xoxo
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Greg's Dad
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| im so sorry 2/24/04 |
im so sorry and that really all i haVE TO SAY
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caitlyn
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| Amzaing Story 2/17/04 |
God Bless you Greg,
we pray for you and your family.
i have added you to Jonathon's website who lived in England as a remark of deepest respect.
You really do have a loving and caring Family who will never forget.
your family can view your memorial on www.jollygiant.moonfruit.com
hope this is appropriate.
kind regards Chris UK
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chris o@connor
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| Merry Christmas My Beloved Son 12/11/03 |
Merry Christmas Greg...we will miss you so much this Christmas Season and your memory is in my heart always...Love You, Dad xoxo
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Greg's Dad, Bill
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| HI 11/22/03 |
HI MY NAME IS SYDNEY MY STORY IS ABOUT FRIEND SHIP
iN YOU i SEE........A FREE SPIRIT WHO LAUGHS AND DREAMS AND RUNS WITH THE WIND .....A SPIRIT FILLEDS WITH CREATIVITY AND CONFIDENCE.........A FRIEND WHOSE SMILE AND LOVES AND WERDSOF WISDOM MAKE SUCHA DIFFERENCE IN MY LIFE WHAT A BEAUTIFULL FRIEND i HAVE IN YOU!!!!!
BY SYDNEY
AGE 9
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SYDNEY
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| AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA 11/22/03 |
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BY AAAAAAAAA
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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| chismas 11/22/03 |
CHRISMAS
Chrismas is A grat thing you can Have FUN!!!!you have a family who
loves you and cares of you and you love it!!!!!!!!chrismas is the best.
by sydney
age 9
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sydney
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| Our Visit 10/4/03 |
Our family took a ride to the cemetary to visit Greg today. We took Kellie & Sean who have never been to a cemetary before. Kellie was 2-years old when Greg left us- too young to remember him the way the rest of do. Sean was still 2-years from even being born when you left us.
We weren't sure where Greg was, exactly. We parked the car in the vicinity of where we knew he was, and stepped out of the car right next to his site- it was very odd, and neat. Dawn & Kellie cleaned the headstone with a gallon of water and wet wipes and then laid down a bouquet of red & white carnations. Sean & I watched them.
I was leary about taking Kellie as she has always avoided cemetaries. But, as an inquisitive 5-year old, she brought out tons of wonderful Greg memories with her 50-questions. She wanted to know everything about Greg- what he did, where he worked, why she can't remember him, where he is now, why he was sick and why he was the one born with CF.
We loved answering her questions because they brought back so many wonderful memories- Greg was such a wonderful person. The only question we couldn't answer for her was why was Greg the one who was born with CF. We've all been asking this question for years, without any answers.
We all miss you so much, Greg. Even those that didn't know you miss you because they hear how wonderful you were and wanted to know you. Kellie said she loved you and blew you a kiss when we left.
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Larry & Dawn Tinskey
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| A Very Special Kid..... 10/4/03 |
It is hard to believe that at 6:05pm, 3 years ago today, Greg died. We met at the cemetery on Wednesday and then proceeded to Casey's Tavern in Ann Arbor for our annual dinner. Greg's memories continue to be in all of our hearts and to this day, he still continues to touch alot of lives. I like to remember Greg as a wonderful son, great personality, loved his home and animals and was a very Special Kid who loved his family and had alot of friends....it is to these people, I dedicate this special day...God Bless you all. Greg - we love you so much!!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| unknown 7/25/03 |
I didn't know Greg Unger, but somehow stumbled on this webpage by accident. It's so amazingly touching that I'd like to help somehow. Sorrow for a lost one cannot be cured, only with time, I suppose, but letting their memory live on through all of us still here on earth will never let us forget someone special. I just lost a grandparent and when I was speaking to my 5 year old nephew about our loss, he simply said, "It's like he didn't even die because I can remember him bye his pictures and talk to him that way." -from the mouths of babes.
So, in my sentimental and, also sorrowful state, I'd like to make a donation to Cystic Fibrosis and learn more about it.
God bless to you all and may God heal your sorrow.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
gaelen
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| Greg is in more places than we will ever know! 6/25/03 |
As time passes & with three years shortly around the corner, Greg is remembered by those you might never suspect. I did not know Greg personally. I knew of Greg through stories shared by his brother, & I like to think, by simply knowing his brother. May it bring some peace of mind that it is not just family & friends that keep Greg at heart. I think of Greg & all that I have heard about him. This occurs in obvious moments like a Red Wings Game. But it is the unobvious moments that warm my heart the most. I remember Greg when driving by a random soccer field (as the beautiful Founders Sport Park across the street from Glen Eden Memorial), or simply in the early morning horizon on my way to work. Greg is in more places than we will ever know!
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-N
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| 3rd Annual Memorial Golf Outing 4/10/03 |
Hi Everyone....just wanted to let you know that the 3rd Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing is scheduled this year for Tuesday, July 8, 2003 at the Pheasant Run Golf Course in Canton Michigan. It is 18 holes of Golf with a cart, Scramble format, beverages on the course, lunch at the turn, banquet with an open bar, and chances to win alot of great prizes. The cost is $105 per person and the proceeds go to the Canton Firefighters Charity Foundation. In the past 2 years, over 5 scholarships have been awarded to Greg's College, Schoolcraft College, in memory of Greg. This has always been a wonderful event put on by the Canton Firefighters and we are forever grateful for all their help through-out the years. Last year they had to open up the second golf course in order to accomodate all the golfers so if you are interested in playing, make your reservation early. If you are interested in attending only the banquet you can purchase a ticket for a cost of $50. For an application or further information, contact the Canton Fire Dept. at 734-398-5263. Thank you for all your support and God Bless.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Scholarships in Memory of Greg 3/5/03 |
Hi everyone...guess who! Just received a letter today from Schoolcraft College to inform you that three scholarships from the Greg Unger Memorial Scholarship Fund were awarded for the 2003 Winter Semester and that all three students were perfoming satisfactory. If you recall, the scholarships were awarded to students who had special learning needs and no consideration would be given to grade-pointe average. The college told us that they believe that these three students were the most worthy recipients of this gift and will make us and Schoolcraft College proud of them. It is with deep appreciation to all of you who support the Annual Golf Outing and The Canton Firefighters Association who sponsors this great event every year, that make it possible to carry on Greg's memory. Thank you All!!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Greg - Welcome Back 2/18/03 |
Well Greg, thanks to your wonderful cousins, Mike and Brian, your website is back on-line. I was so disappointed when I found out that your site was closed. I wanted to at least preserve all of the wonderful messages you received from family and friends (which are priceless). After alot of negotiations, patience, perserverance and continuing love from your cousins, we are now back on-line and I will get my wish to download this entire website (I hope)! I am not sure if many will be able to re-visit your website (due to some technical gyrations that they need to do to their computer) but this has always been a "safe-haven" for me to see your smiling face, re-visit many pictures and to re-read many of the heart-warming messages sent to you. You are truly missed and loved by all who knew you and you will be in our hearts forever - Love you so much, Dad xoxo
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| greg will always be with me 11/7/02 |
Hey bud!
I just wanted to let you know that i think of you alot. everytime i do something important or challenging i think of you and ask for your help. Sorry if i bother you with all my questions LOL! Greg just remember that i will always cherish you in my heart and one day when i raise a family, they will know how much you ment to me and what an inspiration you were to me those years we spent in high school.
Love, Tim
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Tim halimi
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| 2 Long Years 10/4/02 |
Hey Greg,
These have been 2 very hard years. I don't really know how to express how I feel. You were always there for me if I needed someone to talk to. You were the best friend I could've ever hoped to have. I try to look at the positive and think of the good times we shared together, but I can't help but think of all the things we're missing out on doing together. I know you're with me wherever I go though. I just want you to know I'm always thinking of you.
On a happier note, I'm leaving for Las Vegas on Monday morning. Maybe if you're not too busy you can swing by and send some luck down for me. I'll talk to ya later.
Bye,
Duane
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Duane Moore
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| We Will Never Forget You 10/4/02 |
Today is a day I will never forget - 2 years ago this day, Greg passed-away. You begin to re-live those days leading up to his death feeling the same pain and sorrow as you did 2 years ago. The only thing we have now are the memories we shared with Greg during his short life which makes my heart ache. He was a wonderful boy, son, and friend. He had a infectious sense of humor where you felt good when you were with Greg - everyone loved being around Greg. Greg was the bravest person I know and as I continue to live my life, I am reminded more and more of just how brave he was and how he is such an inspiration to me. We know Greg is in heaven and some very profound things have happen that tell us he is with us thru our lives. We miss him terribly and our love continues to grow. Today, a few family members and friends will gather at his grave-site and pay tribute to a wonderful person who came into our lives for a short time. A few flowers and a small pumpkin will be laid on his grave. We will then go to Casey's in Ann Arbor which is the Tavern near the hospital which became our second home. I would like to thank all our family and friends who has supported us thru-out the years, who have stood beside us during the most difficult times and who continue to support us and this wonderful website - we would not have made it without all of you. God bless Greg and all of you. Greg - we love you and miss you so very much...Dad
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Greg's Dad
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| Just a hello 10/4/02 |
Hi Greg. Lucy here. Just thinking about you. Alicia, Michelle and I have alot of good memories of the times we shared with you. I cherish everyone. Your family and friends miss you so much. It's hard for us to understand why certain things happen the way they do, but I know someday we will. Hey Greg, what was it like to soar into heaven?! Was the light of God just what we imagine? I hope to know these answers someday and to see you, mom and all my loved ones who have gone to Heaven again. God bless you Greg. xo
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Carol
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| Still missing you 10/4/02 |
Dear Greg,
It's hard to believe that it has been 2 years since you left us. So much has happened in those 2 years. With our family and the world. As you know your cousin Shannon got married 9/21/02. She wished you could have been here to join in the fun. During the church ceremony she had pictures of her grandparents, Uncle Bill, and you up on the table next to the Unity candle. She wanted you all there with her that day. What is really strange in all the videos and pictures the family took is there is a glow of light above all the pictures. It is only on the side of the church where the pictures are. So when you look at the pictures you can tell that you were all with her on her special day. Just remember Greg you are never out of my thoughts and prayers. Knowing you were there to help Bill when he joined you made things a tiny bit easier for me. As we saw at the wedding you are always with us. Love, Nancy
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Nancy
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| Greg's Bloody Glovers 9/24/02 |
Hey Greg....do you remember when you had that fantasy hockey team with Dr. Cohen and you named it "Greg's Bloody Glovers" and it came in last place. Well, Kris has organized a fantasy football league and I carried your team name into the league and guess what - we are in 3rd place out of 10 teams. Guess who is in 1st place - yep, your sister Jamie, who named her team after her puppy - Paddy's Pooper Scooper - and Kris, who is the Commissioner of the league is near the bottom...not bad, eh? Love you, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Reflections 9/11/02 |
Hi Greg....was scrolling down reading alot of the messages that were posted about a year ago. When I came to the one that I had written you on October 4, 2001, it was difficult to read all that happened on September 11th. At that time, we thought over 6,000 people were killed at the World Trade Center, whereas the final count was near 2800...a terrible tragedy for those victims and their families. Today, will be a day to remember all who had died one year ago. The most significant thing that happened this year is your Mom and Jim getting married....I wish your Mom all the happiness in the world - she deserves it! Jamie and Keith are busy planning their wedding for July 19th and Kris is back home in L/A. Tina and Tim had a baby girl (Katlyn Elizabeth) and Larry & Dawn are expecting their second child in December. That is about it for now, my son, but I can't help thinking of you this day and everyday because I know how those people must feel losing their loved ones during this national tragedy....I love you son...God Bless you, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad, Bill
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| Happy Birthday Greg 8/9/02 |
Happy Birthday Greg...it is hard to believe that another year has passed without you being here to celebrate your 22nd birthday. Everyday we feel the loss of your presence but as you can see by all the hits on this website, your memory continues to live on with all of us and you will continue to live in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you so much - Happy Birthday to a wonderful and brave son. Love you, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad
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| 2nd Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Tournament 7/31/02 |
Yesterday was the 2nd Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Tournament and what a great tournament it was. The weather was great, another full house of golfers (over 46 foursomes), the food and prizes were great and the Canton Firefighters Association raised over $7,500 which half will be used to award more scholarships for needy students at Schoolcraft College where Greg attended and the remaining funds for other Community needs. This year they had to open up a 3rd 9-holes of the golf course to accomodate all the additional golfers. Our sincere appreciation goes out to Mike Carruso and the Canton Firefighters Assn.,all the volunteers, the community and all of you who supported this wonderful event in a great tribute to Greg whose life and memories live on - God Bless you all!!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Greg Nate 7/4/02 |
Hey Greg,
Sorry it took so long for me to write. It's still just so hard to believe your gone. I'm not going to get too mushy on you now. I was thinking about you when the Red Wings were making all their big signings at the beginning of last season. I kept wanting to call you on the phone. I wish you could of been here to celebrate with us.
The other day I was looking at some of the stories we wrote together when we were younger (you know the ones). It made me start to think about all the things we used to do and how much time we got to spend together. I will never have another friend like you as long as I live. I'm just grateful I knew you for as long as I did.
Well, I gotta get going. It was great talking to you again and let's hope the Wings can do it again next year. I miss you.
Love,
Duane
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Duane Moore
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| It's a GREAT Car, Right Greg? 6/30/02 |
Hey Greg,
I knew you had good taste, In 1999 I bought the same car, a black 2000 Oldsmobile Alero. Then in 2000 I Bought the Silver 2001 Oldsmobile Alero. I switched colors, because as you would know, Black is so HARD to keep clean. I have always loved my cars and now have another reason to keep mine clean, just in case you drop in to check it out. Say Hi to everyone for me -Dave
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
David Unger
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| GO WINGS 6/14/02 |
Well Greg...as you know, the Wings won last night. I know you were there with all of us when Shanny scored that open-net goal in the 3rd period. I wore your 1998 Stanley Cup Championship hat that you always wore so you were not only in my heart but you were also on top of my head. Even Kris was home to see the Wings win it all. During this entire playoff series when the Wings seemed to be stumbling alittle, I would look up at one of your pictures and your grin said it all '..don't worry Dad, the Red Wings are going to do it..'. Jamie kept saying that the media was jinxing the Wings by saying they were going to win it all...that made her very nervous but, I would tell her not to worry, I really feel Greg is with us on this one and he says 'not to worry'...and, of course, with all the new players on the team this year...Brett, Lou, Hasik, Olansin, Chelios and alot of the younger players...what a great team to watch. One thing that I noticed the most after the game ended, all of the players wanted their families to join in the celebration and that made me cry because that is what life is all about...family and you were such a big part of ours. We miss you so much, Greg and you will be in my heart everyday of my life...God is with you...Love, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad
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| Red Wings + Greg 6/14/02 |
Well as the Wings won the Stanley Cup again, I felt like Greg was there with me cheering like a fool. (I know kind of cheesy)
But I must say, I have never been one with words. (Written or spoken)
But, I miss Greg and wish he were with me right now to celebrate. (Would be 21 by now so I would share a beer with him *wink* )
All right that's all the gas I have left in me to type, I had a long day at work and Greg knows where.
So goodnight and God Bless.
P.S. I miss ya.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Fritz
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| Visit with the Angel Lady 4/20/02 |
Last week, Barb, Jamie and I visited the Angel Lady in Fenton, MI. She is a spiritual leader who claims she can communicate with spirits from the "other side". This lady is so popular that there is a one year waiting list to see her. Even though I was a little reluctant to go, I must admit it was a very comforting and interesting experience. The Angel Lady was able to communicate with Greg while we were there and he wanted everyone to know that "he is very happy, healthy and is with all of his friends and family". Greg said that he can breathe so well and he runs along the beach of a lake everyday. He said that he no longer needs anyone to clap him, rub his legs and that his teeth now look good. Greg said that his job is to accompany animals to Heaven that die on Earth. Greg said that right now, he has a beagle dog named Sammy. He also says that he goes to Children's Hospitals and reads to the terminal ill kids who also can see him. Greg mentioned that he was with family members, Mary, Helen (Helena), Elizabeth, Harriet, Linda and with friends Mark, Doug and others. Greg said that he really liked his Memorial Service and especially the poem that was written about him. Greg wanted everyone to know that he is the happiest that he is ever been and that "he wants everyone to live their lives the happiest way they can". Greg also said that he was ready to leave Earth several months before he actually did but stayed for his family and friends. Greg also was very happy about all of the money that was raised for him. In addition, Greg had personal messages to each of us which were very emotional. By the way, Greg wanted to know "who had his Red Wing Jacket?"
The Angel Lady did not know our last names, our website, or anything about us prior to our visit. For those who are interested, the website for the Angel Lady is www.angelvision29.com
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg' s Dad
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| 2nd Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing 4/20/02 |
The 2nd Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing will be held on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at Pheasant Run Golf Club located at 46500 Summit Parkway in Canton Michigan. There will be a 8:30am Shotgun start. The cost is $105 per person which includes Golf, cart, beverages on course, lunch at the turn, banquet with an open bar and a chance to win great prizes. The golf will be a Scramble format and a skin game will be included if desired.
This tournament was a huge success last year which is sponsored by the Canton Firefighters #2289 Charity Foundation. Over $5,000 was raised for the communtiy with half being awarded in scholarships to Schoolcraft College in memory of Greg. Last year, the tournament filled up early and many golfers were turned away so please make your reservation early. If you choose only to attend the banquet, tickets are $50 each. Please call either Mike Caruso, Jim Davison, or Chris Stoecklien at 734-398-5263 for reservations or further information.
Again, our appreciation goes out to the Canton Firefighers for sponsoring this great event in memory of Greg.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Spring brings hope 4/11/02 |
Hi Greg...just missing you and thought I would write a thought or two. Put fresh flowers on your grave today, such a beautiful day it was...so quiet and serene, even the golfers were out today. This was always your favorite time of the year with the nice weather coming and the Red Wings playoffs to begin soon. Still hard to believe you are gone, but you do live in my heart everyday. I love this website - it gives me a place to go to think of you, to write, and always that anticipation to see if anyone else has written - it has been kind of quiet here for the past couple of months but it is a very comforting place to go to. Love you Greg and miss you so much - Love, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Greg 2/27/02 |
I'm a college student in AZ. One night I was surfing the internet and came across Greg's webpage. I could tell just by looking at the photos of him what a special person he was. It would of been an honor for me to know him. What a shame he had to die so young, but how I look at it is God needed another angel in heaven and he picked Greg.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Teresa
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| Greg's Car 1/31/02 |
Today I have to turn in Greg's car. For those of you who didn't know, I have been driving Greg's black Oldsmobile Alero ever since he died. It was a lease car and now the lease is up. We were going to try and buy it, but I just can't afford the monthly payments (sorry, Greg).
For some reason, it is really bothering me. He loved that car so much. It is a really nice car and he loved driving it. He would wash it and keep it clean (unlike me). It was nice driving that car because I felt like wherever I went, Greg would always be with me.
I just wish he was still here and was turning it in himself. I miss you so much, Greg.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Jamie
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| It,s a wonderful life 1/23/02 |
I,m sitting here reading all the wonderful messages from everyone to Greg, about Greg and for Greg, it's the first time that I can just take in the pictures and the stories because I just received a computer from my family and I'm sitting here and crying and that makes for a hard read through the tears . It makes me proud that he was my nephew and how much people loved him , he sure made a mark on this earth , how many of us will do that in our lifetime? It's just like my favorite movie at Christmas "It's a Wonderful Life" your rich in how many lives you touch. And Greg did that and more. What a wonderful person you were and still are I love you your Aunt Bernice
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Aunt Bernice
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| A Letter from Mom 12/26/01 |
Below is a little note that our mom (Greg's mom) wrote back on July 13, 2001. Tonight is Christmas night (Dec 25, 2001), and we thought it would be nice to finally post this. Merry Christmas, Greg. We all miss you.
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Dear Greg,
I went to Glen Eden the other day. It was beautiful and sunny. Your headstone is finally in place and it looks very nice, but the sorrow I feel is still so overwhelming. I can't believe it's been 9 months since you left us. It seems like forever, and yet it also seems like yesterday. I wonder if you know how much I miss you. I wonder if you know that I cry almost every day, especially on my way home from work. It seems to hit me really hard at that time. I wonder if you can hear me when I talk to you, which I do from time to time. I have so many wonderful memories of you. You were a very special young man, and a special gift to me from God. Despite everything you went through, you
were always cheerful and courageous, you never complained, and you were an inspiration to a lot of people.
I didn't watch much hockey this year. It was too hard without you. I remember how much fun we had watching the games. I know how much you enjoyed my cheering and yelling (ha ha).
I wish I could hear your car in the driveway and your footsteps coming down the hall. I miss you so much. I know my life will never be the same again, I've learned that for sure. I've also learned that there will always be a void in my life that can never be filled. And finally, I've learned that in some strange way, I needed you as much as you
needed me. You will always, always be in my heart.
I'm sorry it took me so long to write on this website -- it's just so hard for me.
I love you, always.
Mom
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Barb Unger
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| My Christmas Message 12/24/01 |
Dear Greg - my Christmas Message to you will never change - I miss you so much and you are in my heart thru the Holidays as you are each and every day. Knowing that you are with Jesus and in Heaven comforts me but Christmas without you is just not the same no matter how hard we try. Your laugh, your "tsh", the way you called me "Dad", your presence is all missed so much and pains my heart -I don't think there is any stronger emotion than a parent's Love for their child - God Bless You, Greg and I love you so very much - Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad
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| Greg Unger Memorial Scholarship Fund 11/29/01 |
I just received notification from Schoolcraft College that they received the donation of $2,000 from the Canton Firefighters Charity Foundation from last summers Golf Tournament which they have now established into The Greg Unger Memorial Scholarship Fund. Four to five scholarships will be awarded this Winter Term to students who have special needs similar to Greg's. The college will forward us some information on the recipients once the scholarships are awarded. A special thanks to the Canton Firefighters and donors for all of their efforts to make this Memorial Fund possible. Greg loved going to college and now in his memory he is helping other students fulfill their goals and dreams.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Someone to look up to 11/12/01 |
There was another plane crash in New York today, and as I sat here at work looking through CNN.com I found myself thinking of Greg. Within minutes I was browsing through this site and thinking back to all the good times my family has shared with him. He was my little brother Duane’s best friend, but a very good friend of mine as well. I would often hang out with the two of them when Greg would come over to our house in New Baltimore.
Greg meant so much to our family. He was so much more than a friend to me. Greg was someone who really put my life in perspective. Because no matter how bad things got for me, I would always think of Greg, and how he was dealing with worse than I could even imagine, and how not once, and mean not one single time, did I ever hear him complain about it. I look to Greg whenever things look bad, and I advise you all to do the same. He makes me realize that a positive attitude can make all the difference in the world. Greg was a true hero to me, someone who's courage I can only dream to have, who's hope and persistence put the most positive and hopeful person's I know to shame. He was and always will be an inspiration to me.
I think the happiest memory I have of Greg is the one time after his operations when he was finally able to play roller blade hockey with us out in New Baltimore. I would have never dreamed the day would come, but I feel that Greg had no doubt. I know that all that he went through could never be for nothing because he got to do something he had always wanted to do. He was playing hockey with us, not playing on a video game, or watching from the stands, Greg was finally in the game. I am so happy I was a part of that triumphant moment of his life, and will never forget the fun times I’ve shared with him.
I will never forget what Greg has taught me, and I know my family will never forget him either. We love you and miss you, and our thoughts go out to you each and every day. Greg will live on as a hero to all that knew him, and he will continue to help me see the brightness in the darkest days, but most importantly, his memory will remind me to smile. Smile when you think of Greg, for he would not want to make us sad, but for us to be happy, as he was.
Your loving friend,
Shaun
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Shaun Moore
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| The Lord is my Shepherd 10/4/01 |
Because the Lord is my shepherd, I have everything I need! He lets me rest in the meadow grass and leads me beside the quiet streams. He restores my failing health. He helps me do what honors him the most. Even when walking through the dark valley of death I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me, guarding, guiding all the way. You provide delicious food for me in the presence of my enemies. You have welcomed me as your guest; blessings overflow. Your goodness and unfailing kindness shall be with me all of my life, and afterwards I will live with you forever in your home....23rd Psalms
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
The Living Bible
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| One Year Ago Today 10/4/01 |
My Dearest Greg;
It is so hard to believe that one year has gone since your passing. Some people have told me that only time will make the pain go away - they couldn't be more wrong - time makes more pain with each passing day because I miss you so much. Alot has happened since your passing, the most significant was on September 11th when the World Trade Center in New York and the Pentagon was attacked by Terrorists who hijacked 4 airplanes - a horrific event where almost 6,000 people lost their lives. I sure hope and pray that you were able to comfort these people as they entered the Kingdom of Heaven - I know you would have been glued to the TV as we all were watching all that happened. There are many families hurting and we know how they feel - our hearts and prayers go out to all of them - the pratiotism thru-out America has been amazing. Several other people lost loved ones during this year - Bill Peterson and Larry Candela died, Carol lost her mom in May and Bill and Annabelle lost their son, Billy - so sad.
Other things that have happened include Jamie and Keith buying a new house in Lincoln Park. They had a moving-in party in June and I know Jamie really missed you not being there. Jamie also changed school districts from Southfield to Taylor and she seems to enjoy the change. Kris is out of the country, of course, this time in Mexico where he is studying at the University. He took a 1 year leave of absence from his job. He gave us a pretty good scare on the day of the terrorist attack. He was flying home on the morning of the attack from Switzerland to JFK Airport in New York and when we had heard that the hijacked airplanes were from Boston to L/A, we became very scared that it might his plane. As it turned out, his plane was ordered to return to Switzerland after being in the air for 3 hours. He ended up having to stay in Switzerland an extra week before he could get home. Your Red Wings really made some big changes this year. They traded for Dominic Hasek, Lou Robitiou and Brett Hull - they had to give up Osgood (which I know would upset you), Kozlov and LaPointe - but I think you would have loved to see this new Red Wing Team. I find it so ironic that the Red Wings open their season tonight on the same day that you died. Your mom is still working and she misses you so much. Jamie, Mom & I are going to the cemetary tonight and then to Casey's for dinner in your memory - we will call Kris from the restaurant.
Greg, we all love you and miss you so much. I still dream of you often and I love it when I do because in almost every dream I am able to tell you that "I love you" and I feel it is my way of communicating with you and that you do hear me. I know you are safe and without pain being with the Lord. You will be forever in my heart - life will never be the same again without you, buy you are always in my heart. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. And look at this website which your cousins thought of and Brian created it - over 2800 hits, which probably half our mine - it's my refuge to you - my quiet time with you as well as in my prayers - I get excited each time I pull it up and see you smiling there and I am able to say "there is my boy". All of the stories on the website make me cry and I have read everything there more then once. It has quieted down in the last few months but I enjoy going to it and reflecting on you. Well, that is about it, son - I find myself rambling on and I am sure you are rolling your eyes at me, but it makes me feel better to write you and express my feelings to you - God Bless you Greg and I wish I could hold you and hug you - Love, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Greg Unger Memorial Scholarship 9/14/01 |
I thought I would share some positive news with you during these most difficult times. I received the following letter today from Schoolcraft College which reads:
Dear Mr. Unger:
Thank you for your interest in establishing a scholarship at Schoolcraft College in memory of your son, Greg. It was a pleasure talking to you and hopefully we will be able to work together to establish a scholarship for special needs students here at Schoolcraft College.
The process is a simple one. Once your donation is received, our office will notify Financial Aid of the availability and criteria for the scholarship. Generally, we award $500/semester scholarships to students who are attending Schoolcraft on a full time basis. The Scholarship amount is reduced on a sliding scale dependent on the number of credit hours the student enrolls in. I believed you indicated you would like the first award to begin Winter 2002.
According to your wishes our Financial Aid office would work with the Learning Assistance Center to identify a student with special needs. Once the student was selected and semester underway, our office would notify you of the recipient and provide some general information.
If you have any questions arise, give me a call at the following numbers. We look forward to working with you to create a scholarship in memory of Greg.
Sincerely, Marjorie Lynch
Foundation Financial Coordinator
As most of you know, The Canton Fire Department sponsored the Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing in July and over $5,000 was raised which nearly 1/2 will be donated to the Greg Unger Memorial Scholarship Fund at Schoolcraft College. I wanted to share this with you to show you just another example of how our community and Fire Dept. has come to our aid just like they are in New York - God Bless them.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
William Unger
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| Happy Birthday - Greg 8/8/01 |
Tomorrow is Greg's 21st birthday and he is truly missed by all of us. The nurses from 5 West at UofM sent us a birthday card for him. We are meeting at the cemetery tomorrow where we will put flowers, cards & balloons on his grave site and then go to his favorite restaurant in Canton for dinner where we will have a few brewskys to celebrate his 21st. We all love you and miss you so much, Greg! Happy Birthday from your loving family.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad
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| Huge Success @ Golf Outing 7/18/01 |
The 1st Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing was held yesterday and was a huge success. We had over 150 golfers and the weather was perfect. Mike Carusso & Jim Davison of the Canton Firefighters Charity Foundation did a superb job. The Summit Golf & Banquet facilities were "1st Class" all the way. Preliminary results show that the golf outing raised over $5,000 and 1/2 of that will be used to award two $1,000 scholarships to students attending Schoolcraft College (same college Greg attended) who have "special needs" similar to Greg. A huge raffle was held at the banquet where a trip to Vegas, a TV and many more gifts were won. I gave a short speech in memory of Greg which concluded with a 3 minute video of Greg's life which was very inspirational and emotional. A standing ovation was given to our family in memory of Greg and that was very touching to all of us. A tropy with the inscription "Greg Unger Memorial Golf Tournament" was presented to this years winner. We are so glad that we are able to give something back to the community that helped us so much in our need. Our deep appreciation goes to all the organizers, volunteers, sponsors and contributors that made this golf outing a huge sucess. After the golf outing, I visited Greg's grave site and laid a golf ball near his headstone.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| A Simple Reminder 7/4/01 |
A while back I put together a short slideshow from many of the pictures we gathered of Greg. If you have RealPlayer installed, it is located at: http://members.tripod.com/mtinskey/gregshow.htm
site url : http://members.tripod.com/mtinskey/gregshow.htm writer :
Mike
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| Golf Tournament Full 6/23/01 |
We were notified yesterday by the Canton Firefighters that the Greg Unger Memorial Golf Tournament is full and they cannot take anymore golfers. We were pleasantly surprise but with mixed emotions - so happy that it sold out but disappointed because alot of you were not able to sign up for the tournament. However, there is still room available if you would like to attend the golf banquet in the afternoon following the golf outing. Again, the Unger Family would just like to say we are extremely grateful for all your love and support thru-out the years and Greg's spirit truly lives on in our hearts. God Bless you.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Miss you 6/16/01 |
I do not have much to say, other than I miss you. You are and always were a good kid. You did not deserve the cards dealt to you. But, you handled it with courage and faith, that I can only dream about. I think of you often, and know you are in a better place.
Your cousin Jeff
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Jeff Chalk--Greg's cousin(mothers side)
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| cool 6/14/01 |
he is a nice person
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
abhishek
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| cool 6/14/01 |
he is a nice person
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
abhishek
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| Greg Unger Memorial Golf Tournamnet 5/17/01 |
Next week we are sending out over 250 flyers announcing the 1st Annual Greg Unger Memorial Golf Tournament which is going to be held on Tuesday, July 17th. We are looking for golfers, sponsors and door prizes. If you do not wish to golf, please feel free to join us at the banquet. If you would like to attend, please either email me or you can make out the registration form by clicking on the tournament icon on this website's home page. Canton Fire Department has told us they are getting alot of response for this tournament so don't wait to long to register for either the golf or the banquet. The proceeds from this tournament will go to helping families in the community like ours who were in such great need of community support. Also, we would like to award some scholarships on behalf of Greg to students, similar to Greg's situation, who have special medical situations. We are very grateful to Jim Davison and Mike Carusso and all of the Canton Firefighters for all of their continued support.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| The Greg Unger Story 5/2/01 |
Yesterday was my birthday and of course, I really missed Greg so I thought I would share a story of Greg that had some light humor and some sadness in it. I had recently found some notes that I had written on December 2, 1995 while Greg and I were in St. Louis waiting on some tests. Greg's Doctor had told him that the TV Show "Chicago Hope" wanted to do a show on lung transplantation and they were looking for volunteers to tell their story. So, while sitting there waiting for these tests, Greg and I decided to cast The Greg Unger Story. We decided Greg would be played by the child actor, Elija Wood; Greg's Mom would be played by Shelly Fabrey from Coach; As Greg's dad, I would be played by Michael Gross, the father of Family Ties and of course, Kris would be played by Michael J. Fox; Jamie would be played by Mallory from Family Ties; Uncle Dick would be played by Cleave from Cheers; Lucy played Carol and Norm from Cheers played Jim. The Korzeks were naturally played by The Cleavers from Leave It To Beaver. The main story line was as follows: The main characteristic of Greg was his infectious laugh. The outpouring of love from his aunts, uncles, cousins, family & friends were incredible - over 4500 calls on the "hotline" while we were in St. Louis - COTA for Greg raised nearly $200,000 for his transplant; Greg loved his family and had an indestructable bond with his brother and sister and they had a love for him that was unstoppable; his nightly treatments and back scratches. After his transplant, Greg was a new person - a miracle - all of the new energy; Greg will be with us forever in our hearts & prayers - Never to be Forgotten; the courage Greg showed thru all of his illness - never a complaint. Greg had a love for hockey and the Detroit Red Wings - when he was in St. Louis he would wear his Blues Hat; Greg and his doctor formed a fantasy hockey team called "The Bloody Glovers" which came in last place. The doctor told us that his own mother told him never to go into a partnership with your patients but with Greg, you couldn't resist. Greg loved animals - he had his 2 cats and the Korzeks dog, Aldie. Greg was given an opportunity to have a better quality of life & he was able to experience it - Greg, we miss you son.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Memorial Service/Slide Memorial 5/2/01 |
Later this afternoon, we will be attending a memorial service for Greg which is being held at UofM Hospital. Each year, UofM puts on a memorial service for the immediate families of all children who died at the hospital this past year. We will carry your prayers with us.
Greg's cousin, Mike Tinskey, put together a beautiful video tribute of Greg on the internet. The site is http://members.tripod.com/mtinskey/gregshow.htm
Mike says it works best with computers that have sound and a good modem - thanks, Mike and great job.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| Together against CF 4/20/01 |
Greg's brother Jamie came across our site www.billycook.com this past month and I wanted
to see your wonderful site. Our organizations are both working and contributing to the CF community
and I wanted to express my thankfulness to your organization.
Together we can make a difference! Best of luck in all of your future endeavors.
Sincerely,
Bill Haywood
VP of The Billy Cook Foundation
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Haywood
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| Greg-We Miss You 4/13/01 |
Greg - as we approach this Holy time of the year, our thoughts are with you every day up there in the Kingdom of Heaven with our Lord. We miss you, Greg and you will be in our hearts forever. It was kind of sad yesterday because your Red Wings started the Stanley Cup Playoffs and you always looked forward to this time of the year. We love you - Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| My Little Brother 4/11/01 |
I always think of the last time Greg and I were really together. It was early June and I had come in to town since I was working in Chicago for a few weeks. I remember that I almost cancelled my trip home because I wanted to fly out to visit Susana (who I just started seeing). But we decided to wait until the next weekend so that I could come home to visit the family. Greg and I, for whatever reason, had decided that we were going to do something together that Saturday night, just the two of us. I think Jamie had just moved out, Mom was doing something with Jim and my Dad was out at Aunt Joan's with Carol. Anyway, Greg and I had a wonderful time together. We ate dinner, played video games at the Sega arcade, and then raced home to watch the rest of the Stanley Cup game. I cannot express how much I now value that time I was able to spend with him. We laughed, joked around, played games and watched sports...a microcosm of our entire relationship. The day after, on that Sunday, I flew out and just like every time I left home, Greg always accompanied me to the airport to say goodbye. He shook my hand before I left and I can still feel his little hand in mine and the twinge of guilt that I had for leaving. This was my last weekend with Greg...the last time he and I really spoke to each other. It saddens me to think of these "last times".
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Kris Unger
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| An Anniversary of Sort 4/4/01 |
It has been six-months to the day that Greg left us back on October 4th of last year. Time has a way of flying by and time also tends to heal some of the grieving feelings we have felt. Six months is a long time sometimes. Today is a special day for Greg's family and friends. We miss you and we love you, Greg. I just wanted to say something about this day and put it down in this wonderful website that has been devoted to him.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Anonymous
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| Alway's in my Heart 4/1/01 |
It's amazing how often i think of Greg. Even though he is not here physicaly, spiritualy he never leaves my side. I look at his picture that i have put in a frame constantly. For those who didn't know Greg, he was the most kind hearted individual i have ever met. He was the type of person that would give you the shirt of his back, (even if it didn't fit)LOL. But thats how he was, "himself before others." That is how i discribe Greg. Hey Greg I have something to ask you buddy, " i love it when you talk to me and visit me, keep on doin it."
"and oh yeah, thank you for being there for me when i need you."
Love Tim
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Tim Halimi
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| GREG UNGER MEMORIAL GOLF OUTING 3/2/01 |
WE ARE VERY EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE THAT THE FIRST ANNUAL GREG UNGER MEMORIAL GOLF OUTING WILL BE HELD ON TUESDAY, JULY 17TH AT THE PHEASANT RUN GOLF CLUB IN CANTON. This golf outing is being organized by the Canton Firefighters Charity Foundation who were so instrumental in Greg's fundraising over 5 years ago. The event will include a fun day of golf followed by a banquet at The Summit. The Canton Firefighters has asked us to help by signing up golfers, getting sponsors and to help in soliciting door prizes for the banquet. The proceeds from this event will be used for charities, hospitals and families in need during times of crisis as we were. In addition, we would like to use some of these proceeds to establish a scholarship fund in memory of Greg. As it stands now, the registration cost will be $100 per person which will include your golf (8:30 am shotgun start), cart, beverages on the course, lunch at the turn, banquet with open bar and chances to win great door prizes. If you choose only to go to the banquet, the cost is $50. Here is a chance for you to help and to share some of those same experiences which we did during Greg's fundraising days. PLEASE CHECK THIS WEBSITE FOR MORE UPDATES AND FOR MORE INFORMATION, YOU CAN CALL ME AT 810-792-1699 OR JIM DAVISON AT CANTON FIRE DEPT. 734-398-5263. This is a wonderful tribute to Greg and an opportunity for us to give back to the community what they had given us. Once again our family is forever grateful.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| Thank-You 2/17/01 |
Greg,
Sweetheart I thank-you for never leaving. You have beeen in my heart and by my side every moment that I have needed you. I hope I do not bore you as I lay down at night and talk to you. You are the greatest.
As I go through my day I think of Greg often. I know that he is there constantly watching me. Sometimes I do things and I can hear him laughing at me. There are other times when I'm doing something stupid and I hear his voice saying, "Beves be careful." Some moments I can just feel him when I'm driving in my car or feeling lonely. I just tell him that yes I know he is there and thanks for stopping in to say hello. While Greg is not here with me physically I know that he is here in spirit. It is as if we are closer now than before. He is always close by when I need him and it is nice to have a friend that I know is always watching over me. Greg is a wonderful person and I am so lucky to know him. I know that Greg is in all of your hearts and I hope you all feel his presence as much as I do. Thank-You Greg for always being a guiding force in my life. Thank-you for watching over me. Especially at 6:00 am on my way to work when I am so tired and just want to fall asleep. It is noce to know you are listening to my rambling on.
Love You, Boneva
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Boneva
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| Favorite candy 2/14/01 |
Happy Valentines Day, Greg - we miss you so much and your mother tells me this was one of your favorite holidays because you use to love those little heart candies with a message. "We love you" is our message to you as we keep you in our hearts. Love Mom & Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill (Greg's Dad)
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| Remembrance 2/12/01 |
I knew Greg for only a short time, as I had only shortly before come into his uncle's life. Seeing him with his family, experiencing the deep abiding love he shared with them was, indeed, a joy to watch. The other trait that you couldn't help but notice was Greg's exuberance for life. He enjoyed everything and everyone. This comes through time and again in the entries his friends and family have left here. I waited a long time to add my message. I had hoped with time I would find the perfect words. I suppose there are none. But today I came across this poem. As I read it Greg came gently into my mind. So I leave it here for you with love.
For A Young Traveler
Now his pillow is a star,
Now he lays his head upon it.
Even though he is afar
God's love is with him every minute.
Now the nightwind cools his brow
Now the sunlight warms his limbs
Now the planets dance and bow
Sing out joyful hymns.
The young man moves across the skies
Angels bear him as he lies.
There are snowflakes in his crown,
Clouds are ermine in his gown.
Propelled by earthling's rain-soft tears,
He sails among the heaven's sheres.
He has God's promises to keep
And, smiling, keeps them while we weep!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Suzanne
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| Sharing Memories 2/1/01 |
Hi, My name is John, My son passed away also from CF, July of 99. My nephews put together a fundraising website, (www.Push4Johnny.com) while he was in the hospital, PUSH meaning, (Pray Until Something Happens). We were pushing for a double lobular transplant, several of us were tested to get the best match, two of our nephews were the best matches. The only thing we needed was for his infections to get down, after 5 1/2 weeks in the hospital and all of the meds he never got any better. We were with him when the Lord took him home. Thank you Kris for your letter in my sons website, and for allowing me to see your wonderful memorial to your brother Greg. I want my sons memory to go on forever. We have met several families with our website from all around the world, and we are in it everyday. Thank you for sharing your memories with us. You can email me anytime if you would like. I would love to share more with you about my son. John Sr.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
John Thiem
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| We share your loss 2/1/01 |
Hello, What a beautiful tribute to Greg. I share in your loss as we lost our only son Johnny, at 21 years of age on July 19, 1999 to the same awful disease Cystic Fibrosis. We found your web site through Gregs brother writing to us on Johnny's web site PUSH4JOHNNY.COM. After reading several comments and stories on Gregs web site, I find Greg and Johnny had so much in common. They loved to laugh and lived life to the fullest in their very short lives, and they are in heaven together, breathing with a new set of lungs that are perfect. We pray for you and your family and if we can ever help in any way, please contact us through our e-mail address or Johnny's web site. Thank you for sharing Greg with us. John and Esther Thiem
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Esther Thiem
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| Thank You 1/26/01 |
I saw Greg's story today..and his legacy, I guess you would call it. I never knew him..or anyone else of that matter that knew Greg. I was just wanting to know more about Cystic Fibrosis, and your page popped up. It brought tear's to my eyes to know someone of nearly my age had to endure so much pain...but I can see he made a huge impact on everyone. I had a friend who passed away of the same dibilitating disease..although I didn't know him that well. Now I know what he went through...and I feel so lucky to have known such an Angel. Thank You for sharing your story!
Sari*
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Sari (From Indiana)
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| He changed my Life forever 1/26/01 |
Greg, you changed my life forever. I can remember the day that i met you. At first i knew you as the kid who was sick, but then i got to know you in the way that you were ment to be known. Greg had the most positive look on everything. he would make any situation fun. Their are many memeories of greg that i have, but one that will stick with me was when he got his new car. He came by my house and took me for a spin, he was so excited. He asked me if i wanted to race my Camero with his new car. Greg always had funny things to say to lift your spirits. He by far has been the biggest influence on my life. Here was a kid who had a major illness, but would never get down. He showed me that life is wonderful. He showed me that life is too short to be upset or down about things. I owe alot to Greg. i have dedicated some of the goals that i want to accomplish to Greg. I know that Greg will be by my side while i am trying to accomlish these goals. I have a picture of Greg in my living room and i look at it everyday. I miss him greatly, but i know he is with me and all of us whenever we need him. That is the type of guy he was. Anything i ever needed, Greg helped me out. He was a wonderful guy, and his parents and family should be very proud. he changed my life for the better.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Tim Halimi
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| What it is like to have C.F. 1/6/01 |
I am 40 years old and have had C.F.
since I was 7 months old so I have
never known what it's like to be
healthy. Also at 19 years old I lost my sister to C.F. I also am a
diabetic insulin dependent which is
tough because I love sugar. I heard
about Greg through a friend of mine
so I felt as though we were frinds
in a way. I am hopeful that soon
they will have a cure.
Sincerely,
Beverly CAther
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Beverly Cather
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| My Precious Greg 1/4/01 |
Well, like alot of you, I have been thinking for along time what I would write on this beautiful website that was created by Greg's wonderful cousins and each time I started, it was either to painful or so many thoughts that I would not know where to start. Recently, someone told me why don't I write a letter to Greg and express my feelings in that letter - so, I poured myself a glass of wine, dimmed the lights and put on some music and here it goes - from the heart:
Dear Greg;
Here it is 3 months since you died but sometimes it seems so long ago while other times it seems like only yesterday. We all miss you terribly and getting thru the holidays was really tough but knowing that you are in heaven with Jesus and are other loved ones helps alot. Knowing that you are no longer suffering or being poked comforts me. Your mom misses you so much, it is hard to see the pain she goes through. I told her that not only did she lose a son but she probably lost her best friend, too. And you know how much Jamie and Kris love you. Since you died, your mother, Jamie, Kris (when he is home) and I go out to your favorite restaurant (Rusty Nail) every Wed. nite and order all of your favorite foods. And, of course, we have been to Damons a couple of times and we see all of your friends who you worked with - they have alot of fond memories of you. I guess that is what it comes down to - the fond memories that I have of you; like when you were a child and how you would meet me at the door every night; when you played little league where you were a pretty good shortstop; going to Cedar Point every summer, carrying you on my shoulders and going down the rollercoasters, screamin and hollerin; all the boat trips we took together; of course, many of the memories I have were when you were sick or we had to make a trip to the doctors; the one time the four of us all packed in a closet of a room at the Ronald McDonald's House in St. Louis and the lights were off - pitch black and you wanted to know where your glass of water was at - the next thing we hear is you guzzeling down the entire glass of water - glug, glug, glug (lol); where I gave you your buzz haircut prior to your first transplant - you were so mad at me because it was prety bad; and I will always remember your two favorite quotes - one was when you said to me 'Dad, if you give me one of your lungs, then when I am 50 years old, I will have a 100 year old lung in me' (lol); and the quote to Jamie when you were really sick after your first transplant started to reject and I remember Jamie saying to you 'Greg, what would you say if I decided not to give you one of my lungs, and you looked up at her and said in your own sarcastic way 'thanks alot, Jamie'; the treatments we had to give to you twice per day and I would say to you that was our bonding time; all the fundraisers - that was incredible - and you handled it with so much courage; I always remember kissing you and giving you a hug and telling you I love you. I think of you constantly Greg and so many times I still think you are right there, or you are still up at the hospital. New Years was kind of sad because I felt like we were leaving you in the year 2000 and you weren't coming with us. But you will always be with me and in my heart forever. I know I am rambling on and you are probably rolling your eyes at me so I will go and I know someday, I will see you again - I love you, Greg - Love, Dad
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger - Greg's Dad
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| Happy Valentine's Day Greggy 12/26/00 |
I was checking my email today and I received one from the "Hotmail Staff" informing me that I had too many messages. I guess they want me to delete some of them. So I was going through all of my messages and I was coming across a lot from Greg...we were "computer pals" (ya know, like pen pals but through the computer :)~ This is a email he sent me the day after Valentine's Day.
From: Gregman17@aol.com
To: rock521@hotmail.com
Subject: Happy Valentine's Day
Date: Tue, 15 Feb 2000
Jessy,
Yes I know its a day late but better late than never, plus its not llike
we are going out or anything so there is no pressure for me to send you an
email on time anyways. But i figured you could deserve a happy valentine
email anyways. Since you have been such a good friend, always concerned on
how i was feeling and sending me cards over the summer,which i still have,
and even visiting me when i was in ICU (sorry i dont remember but i knew you
came) was very thoughtful. So I thought this would a good time to say thank
you. But now i hope everything starts working out for you, which im sure it
will. I know youve had a rough time lately with the basketball player and
working with rachel, how is that going, is she back from her trip yet. So if
you need anything, talk or just hang out or something let me know. Well i
will let you go, see behind my sense of humor i can be a nice guy, cant i?
Greg
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Jessy Bobee
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| Christmas With Jesus 12/23/00 |
One day after I posted that poem in my last message, I received this same poem on this website. Please type in the following website to hear the angels rather then reading this poem:
http://www.dobhran.com/greetings/GRxmas9.htm
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| Christmas with Jesus 12/22/00 |
I was at the cemetery recently and I was talking to Greg telling him how we will miss him terribly this Christmas when we celebrate the birth of Christ but then I stopped and said - Greg, you're with Christ now celebrating his birth and closer to Him then any one of us. The next day, I received this poem from our dear friends John & Sandy Korzek and I would like to share it with you. I will also read this poem at our family get-to-gether on Chrismas Eve. The poem is entitled "Christmas With Jesus":
I see the countless Christmas trees, around the world below;
with tiny lights, like heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow;
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear;
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year;
I hear the many Christmas songs, that people hold so dear;
but the sound of music can't compare with the Christmas Choir up here;
For I have no words to tell you the joy their voices bring;
for it is indiscribable to hear an angel sing;
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart;
but I am not so far away, we are really not apart;
Be happy for me dear ones, you know I hold you near;
and be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year;
I send you each a special gift, from my heaven home above;
I send you each a memory of my undying love;
For after all Love is the gift more precious than pure gold;
it was always most important in the stories Jesus told;
So please love and help each other, as my Father said to do;
for I cannot count the blessings or the love He has for you;
I can hear the bells all ringing, how they echo from the earth;
oh what joy there is in heaven, as we celebrate His birth;
So have a Merry Christmas, and wipe away that tear;
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year;
I can't tell you of the splendor, or the peace here in this place;
can you imagine Christmas with our Saviour, face to face?;
I'll ask Him to lift your spirit, as I tell Him of your love;
so pray for one another, as you lift your eyes above;
remember, I am with you, so wipe away that tear;
oh, what a glorious feeling, spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year;
Please let your heart by joyful, and let your spirit sing;
I'm spending Christmas here in heaven, I'm walking with the King.
I love you all - Merry Christmas
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| Thoughts About Christmas 2000 12/22/00 |
This may sound somewhat hokey but I just wanted to put my thoughts down in words. Today is my last day at work until January 2, 2001. It is our Christmas / New Years break and I consider it my last working day of the year 2000 and I am again thinking of Greg. Soon it will be January 4, 2001, almost three months since Greg left us. I was 40 years old in 1980 when Greg was born 20 years ago. Greg's whole life lay ahead of him at that time. I had already lived two-thirds of my current life then, which puts me at 60 now. During those last twenty years, I remember the stages of Greg 's life. I did not see Greg that often. However, when I did see him I could see the jumps in his life as he grew as the months and years went by. I would only see him during some of the holiday times and occasionally at his Mom's home or at his Dad's home or when all of us would go out on his Dad's boat or at other special events. I remember when Greg was a newborn baby, when he was a little toddler, and when he became a rambunctious kid. I watched him as he grew into a boy and then become a fun loving teenager and then Greg grew up and became a man's man. I love Greg and I miss him. Greg, all your friends and family will be thinking of you and talking about you during our annual Christmas Eve family get together at your Aunt Joan's home on Commerce Lake. We will miss you more than ever then. It will be a very teary eyed evening, I'm sure. It just won't be the same without you and I'm sure it won't be the same for you without us. It is so hard to write this. Greg, tell the big guy up there "hello" from all of us. Merry Merry Christmas to you Gregory Unger and Merry Christmas the best we can to all of us, too……..
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Uncle D
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| Hey Greggy, we took down that stupid plaque of the Dream Team in 1990 for you. 12/21/00 |
I've typed stories and erased them for the past half an hour now...for the first time I am at a loss of words. Greggy's family came into eat at his old work tonight(Damon's). It has been quite a while since I have seen them. It was a little odd because I was just thinking about them not more than two days ago. I am glad that they came in to visit before the holidays...it was V~E~R~Y good to see all of them. But seeing them also motivated me to finish my dedication that I had started the night that Greggy passed on. I finished it by framing it. I encourage everyone to stop by Damon's to see it. I am going to hang it tomorrow, in place of another sports plaque, on the wall in front of the hostess stand where Greg stood so often (or should I say LEANED...he'd always lean up against it...eventhough we weren't supposed to :)~. The dedication is a poster with various pictures that people from our work had given to me. In the middle is a poem that I wrote the night of October 4th (I have already posted the poem in my previous story). And surrounding the poem are the pictures. In an arc at the top reads, "In Loving Memory" and at the bottom is his nickname, "Greggy".
I am very proud of it. I know that once it is hung tomorrow our co-workers aren't going to mind coming to work anymore...because there, at work, they can see their Greggy once again...
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Jessy Bobee
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| COTA for Greg Lives On 12/7/00 |
Also, Canton Fire Dept is in the planning stages of having a Greg Unger Memorial Golf Outing next season - this is so great where it would give us an opportunity to get together with all our friends and families on a annual basis and to help others in need in our communities. I will post all the updates on this great website!!
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| COTA for Greg Lives On 12/7/00 |
Barb, Jamie and I went over to the Canton Fire Dept. last night and they told us that they would like to do a Tribute to Greg at their next Detroit Red Wing Alumni Hockey Game which is going to be held on February 11th at the Compuware Hockey Arena in Plymouth. We feel that is so wonderful for them to do that.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| 8th Grade Student 12/1/00 |
My name is Randy Munshaw. I was Greg’s 8th grade PreAlgebra teacher (now retired). His guidance counselor informed all his teachers of his medical condition and the fact that he would be missing many days of school, but would make up all his work. True to his word, that was the case. Greg turned out to be an excellent student and a wonderful kid.
We followed Greg’s progress through the local papers often saw him at Damon’s. Both my wife and I have lost loved ones who were young and we understand and share the grief and loss.
Greg will always be with us with the memory of his friendly smile. He was loved by all.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Randy Munshaw
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| My Job at Damon's Ribs 11/27/00 |
Going through some of Greg's things, we came across this poem that Greg had written and I would like to share it with you - entitled:
My Job at Damon's Ribs (where eating out is always an event!)
My job is really fun
All I do is host,
the girls call me hon
because I'm the man with the most.
The cooks are on the line
preparing all the food,
it takes a little time
to make it taste good.
The servers think it's a pain
that the tips are too low,
while the customers complain
that the service is too slow.
As the customers leave
we say "have a nice night,"
I think we all believe
that this place is alright.
Greg Unger
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad - Bill
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| My Memories of Greg 11/18/00 |
I have been trying to think of something to write that would really capture all of Greg into a nice, heart-warming, touching story. But then I've come to realize that life isn't like that. There is not one totally terrific memory that I have of Greg that I can relate to you that will show you what a truly brave, courageous, inspiring, and funny kid Greg was. But I am thankful for that. I have many, many different memories that will live on in my heart. I am thankful for these memories because these are all that I have.
I remember Greg's laugh. He and I used to laugh at the stupidest things. Even if you didn't think it was funny, his laugh would make you laugh, too.
I remember his appetite. Those of you that have known Greg for a long time will remember what a battle it was to get Greg to eat. Well, last year they started him on a drug that increased his appetite. Boy, did it work. He gained almost 25 lbs. last year. He would go out to eat and order SO much food. Every Wed. night Mom, Greg, and I would go to the Rusty Nail and he had to order mushrooms, wing-dings, and french fries. Then it would take him an hour to eat it all. We would tease him about his little "belly". But it was in fun, because we were just so glad to see him with a belly for once.
I remember he and I being so close. We would sit in his bedroom at night before we went to bed and just talk and talk. I really miss those times. We never had a hard time saying what we really felt to each other.
I remember fighting with Greg. Greg COULD be a tad annoying at times. If we were trying to leave to go somewhere, he would take FOREVER to get out the door. What I woudn't give to be bickering with him at this very moment.
I remember Greg's sense of humor. I don't know where he got it from, but he had such a sarcastic sense of humor. Especially about the Lions...
Speaking of which, I remember watching the Lions, the Spartans, and, of course, the Red Wings with Greg. If it wasn't for Greg, I probably would not have ever become a sports fan. I remember getting into the March Madness pool with him and Kris, and me usually winning (and I don't believe I ever collected my winnings!) Kris and Greg used to get so mad that I'd win because the two of them would do all of the research, and I would just pick my teams based on if I liked the name of the school, the state they were in, or the color of their uniforms.
And, of course, I remember him being sick and the courage he displayed through it all. He never complained, never questioned, never asked "why me?" When he was first transplanted, we got the phone call and Greg says "Well, I guess I better get my shoes." I remember once, Greg and I were watching T.V. (one of our favorite pasttimes), and a story came on about a disease, I can't remember which one, that made you tremor and shake. And with all that Greg had been through, as he watched this story, he was really touched. He said, "That would be horrible!" I remember thinking to myself, what a brave kid! He never even stopped to think that what he had been through had been horrible.
Greg sure was an in inspiration to me. I've learned that we have to live life to the fullest (even though I'm having trouble doing that without him around). Each day should be treasured. And you should really value your family, because, in the end, they're the ones that will get you through the tough times.
I miss Greg SOOO much. It's been very hard. He gave us so much and now it feels so lonely without him. I hope that he's up there, feeling no pain, and I hope I'll get to see him again someday.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Jamie
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| Greg's To Do List 11/14/00 |
I know Greg would roll-his-eyes if he knew I was sharing his "To Do List" with you but it shows a typical day in Greg's Life:
Wednesday
1. Go to school-coffee-get dressed-
eat something-bring pop-bring
sandwich-turn in work.
2. Get mail & call doctor.
3. Do biology homework-study for
quiz.
4. Eat buffalo wings-check sugar.
5. Go online-email my teacher-email
friends-check out fantasy foot-
ball-worldperks #-my calendar-
syllabus-school schedule-Doctor
appointments-birthdays-holidays-
Lions,MSU,UofM schedules.
6. Feed raccoons.
7. Garbage ready-my room-kitchen-
newspapers-recycled items-water
bowl for cats.
8. Go to night class-bring pop-get
dinner.
9. Cash check-ask for raise.
10. Fill-out voter form.
11. Take pills-Blood work.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Greg's Dad
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| The Teacher 11/12/00 |
As Greg's cousin, I realize after reading all the nice things everyone has written and reflecting back on the few times I was able to spend time with Greg, that he touched the lives of alot of people and taught us that every moment matters. He taught us that even in the toughest times of our lives, we can still make a difference. He taught us Bravery, Humility, Kindness and above all friendship. I can now face any challenge as long as I remember the lessons that Greg was able to teach us.
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
David Unger
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| In Memory of Greg 11/10/00 |
One of Greg's nurses wrote this poem for Greg's family and I would like to share it with you:
It's fall or autumn as some people
say,
The beautiful fall leaves flutter to the ground blowing every which
way,
They are gently pulled from the
fragile branches of the tree,
And swept away in the warmth of the
breeze.
Soon all the leaves will be gone
from the trees,
And the trees will be still without all the beauty that you
now see.
I think of Greg and how he is like
these trees,
With fragile branches but colorful
leaves.
He is the tree with many bright
leaves-
Red for his courage, yellow like his sense of humor and orange for his inner-strength, which was easy
to see.
And now Greg, too is still like the
trees,
He has taken a big breath and blown
all of his leaves free.
He has given us more than most it
seems,
For he has shown us how fragile
life can truly be.
Greg will always have a special
place in my heart,
When I see the fall leaves and feel
the breeze, I'll know its Greg
breathing freely helping the leaves
and the tree to part.
And as I watch the colorful leaves
float to the ground,
I'll remember Greg-a special friend
that I was lucky to have found.
(It was a pleasure to be Greg's nurse - Sue Roebuck)
site url : http://www.gregunger.com writer :
Bill Unger
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| memories and other fun stuff 11/10/00 |
welll...where to start..(sorry if i ramble)...g-man was one of those people who can totally change your outlook on life....he was like the little brother i never had....i loved him as such.....greg was one of those people that could make work the best place to be.....lets start at the beginning...i knew jamie beforehand because she started shortly after i did....jamie has always been a sweetie and always will be..(*hug* to jamie)...and i remember when she was telling me that her little brother was going to get a job hosting at damon's with us...and i didnt really know about his medical probs...she kinda told me about them...i had no idea that point about all the fundraisers and stuff...
greg and i would talk about evvvvverything...i would get into trouble by hangin | |